A stressor from childhood:
In 1992 my family and I lived in Miami Florida when hurricane Andrew
came through and devastated the area, I was 12 years old at the time. It was
one of the scariest things I remember going through as a child. My family and I
boarded up the house, filled the bathtubs with water, and tried to stock up on
supplies. I remember going in to the grocery stores and the shelves being bare
or almost empty of all the perishable foods and water. I remember my mother
telling me not to worry we have plenty of food and supplies at home.
We all gathered blankets and pillows, flash lights, and toys and
hunkered down in the hallway. During the storm the wind was howling and things
were banging into the house. The window in my parent’s room got broken out from
debris. The hallway where we were hunkered down in started leaking water. I was
too young at the time to understand that the roof was being torn apart from the
storm. My parents were trying to find a safer spot that would fit the seven of
us, a place with no windows. We went to the garage but when my dad opened the door,
there was a huge hole in the garage roof and if wasn’t safe for us to go in. My
dad flipped over our couches and put them against the wall and we all climbed
under them like a fort. This is where we spent our time during the remainder of
the storm.
My parents tried during the duration of the storm to take our
minds off of what was going on by telling stories and playing games. The talked
to us about what was happening and told us not to worry that they would take
care of us and keep us safe. After the hurricane our neighborhood and the
surrounding areas were devastated. We were lucky and our house was still
livable but many of our neighbors their houses where a complete loss. We were
without power or clean water for a while. We gathered supplies, batteries and
bottled water and helped deliver them to people in need. We helped cleaned up
our neighborhood and where ever it was needed. It was a very stressful time. My
parents helped us through this time by talking to us and letting us talk to
them.
Stressors in other country/region:
There are many stressors children have to face in Africa such as, communal
violence/armed conflict and HIV/AIDS. “The Research Program on Children
and Global Adversity (RPCGA) works to close the global implementation
gap between the realities facing children and families in adversity…the program
operates at the crossroads between research, policy and program design,
implementation and evaluation. The RPCGA is engaged in applied research
to contribute to stronger and evidence-based interventions to serve children
and families in adversity worldwide.” (The Research Program on Children
and Global Adversity [RPCGA], 2012, p. 1). They have many current projects ongoing. In Rwanda
they have a family strengthening intervention going on for families and
children affected by HIV/AIDS. The Longitudinal Study of War-Affected Youth –
Sierra Leon, the Somali Bantu Refugee Community Project, and the SAFE Project (RPCGA, 2012). These programs
study the affect stressors have on children but also offer ways to help reduce
the stressors in the children’s lives.
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I am very sorry you had to go through this. That must have been very traumatic. I think it is great that you and your family banded together and helped the community. It is very important to help others in times of need. I think it is really sad that Rawanda has such devastating effects of Aids. It is a problem seen around the world. Maybe one day there will be a cure for HIV/AIDS. I look forward to reading your future posts.
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ReplyDeleteI am glad to hear that your family made it through together. I can't even imagine having to deal with the destruction of a national disaster as an adult ,so I can recognize how stressful this would have been for a child. Thank you for sharing your story!