Tuesday, April 19, 2016

What I Have Learned


My one hope that I have when I think about working with children and families who come from diverse backgrounds it that I have the knowledge about others and myself to help them feel welcome. I want to provide them with a place where they feel comfortable and a part of. I want to provide an appropriate and safe environment for children to learn, develop and grow. An environment where all families feel welcome and a place that represents each of my family’s cultures. To do this I need to understand myself first. I need to peel away my layers and figure out who I am and how I became the person I am. “No one escapes learning stereotypes and misconceptions…These lessons begin when we are very young, taught initially and most powerfully by our family…all of us still carry inaccurate and negative messages-even if we no longer believe they are true-that can keep us from seeing each person as a unique, whole person fully deserving of our respect” (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2012, p. 23).  If I want every one of the families in my care to feel excepted and welcome I need to uncover my personal biases, discomforts and misconceptions.
A goal I would like to set for the early childhood field related to issues of diversity, equity, and social justice is to educate parents, caregivers and other professionals on anti-bias education. What it is and how you can accomplish it. Every person has misconceptions, biases, and discomforts, no person can say they are free of these things. Many people do not even realize they have misconception, biases and/or stereotypes. Anti-bias educators hope that the “day will come when the ‘anti-bias’ part of that journey is no longer needed because all children are growing up fully nurtured and able to be fully who they are, with no barriers of prejudice, discrimination, poverty, or war. Then learning about and valuing one another’s diversity will be a natural part of growing up” (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2012, p. 157). It all starts with ourselves. If more people looked inward at themselves they would begin to stop the perpetuation of biases, stereotypes and misconceptions.  
I would like to say thank you to all of my colleagues. These last 8 weeks have been a very rewarding learning experience from me. I have enjoyed reading your blogs and discussion posts. They have helped me look at many topics from a new perspective. A perspective I would probably never have thought of! Thank you again and I wish you all success in your educational journey for your Master’s Degrees and in life!
Brandie



References

Derman-Sparks, L., & Edwards, J. O. (2012). Anti-bias education for young children and ourselves. Washington D.C.: National Association for the Education of Young Children.

Saturday, April 16, 2016

Creating Art

Take time to think about what you have learned in this course about children's identities and development and the ways in which each is impacted by bias, discomfort, and trauma. What you have learned about anti-bias work, yourself, and others. Then create a piece of art that illustrates your key learning's from the Start Seeing Diversity media segment and your blog discussions. Art means very different things to different people and you are encouraged to create art in a median most comfortable to you. The sky is the limit with this assignment as long as you can upload your artwork with your colleagues (co-artists). You have the freedom to define what art means to you and select your own medium:

Some live in a world of darkness and pain
Not having enough to eat
Were will they sleep
Who will take care of them
Dad is drinking again and mom is gone
Please look at me, I am right here in front of you
Please don's hurt me again
All it takes is a little light in the darkness
I can be that light
Light is hope
A little kindness goes a long way
Cope, work through issues and succees
Resilience
Break the cycle
Happiness, love, kindness, and patience
By Brandie Madrid



Sunday, April 10, 2016

"We Don't Say Those Words in Class!"

  • A time when you witnessed an adult (or yourself) reprimand or silence a child after he or she pointed out someone they saw as different (e.g., "That lady talks funny," " That man only has one leg!" "Why is that man so pretty!"). Include what the child said and what the adult did or said in response. (Note: If you cannot think of a specific time ask a friend or family member.)
     I was walking through the store one day, it was before I had children, and this little girl points at a man that has a prosthetic leg and says "Whats wrong with his leg?". The mother turned really red and rushed the child off, scolding her as they went about how it is not nice to point or say things like that to other people. I was shocked that the mom handled it that way. The mother made it seem like their was something really wrong with that man.The message communicated to the little girl was that their was something "wrong" with people who are different than her. "Stereotyping and bias influence children's self-concept and attitudes towards others" (Pelo, 2008, pg.7). How we act and react to the people around us can influence a child's beliefs and attitudes with other people. We need to make sure we are send children the right message and not perpetuate bias/stereotypes and discomforts.
  As an anti-bias educator I would have handled that situation totally differently and have so with my own children. Children are so curious about the world around them and we need to feed that curiosity. I would have first told the child that it really is not nice to point and that there was nothing "wrong" with his leg. Each of us are born different and some difference you can see and some you cannot. That man has a difference that we can see. Just like I need help to hear so I wear hearing aids, that gentleman had something happen to his leg and now he has a prosthetic (fake leg) to help him walk. We need to teach children about how each and every person is different and that different is not wrong or bad. "It is not the differences in themselves that cause that problem, but how people respond to differences" (Pelo, 2008, Pg. 9).  We need to teach acceptance and understanding. 
Brandie

Resources
Pelo, A. (2008). Rethinking early childhood education. Milwaukee, Wisconsin: Basic Book